Unity Candle
Ceremony
The Unity Candle Ceremony consists of the lighting of one candle from two separate candles
held by the bride and groom. This ceremony symbolizes the union of two lives into one. Creative variations can be added to
the ceremony, such as the mothers of the bride and groom, or any designated member of the wedding party, lighting the candles
after they walk down the isle or during the ceremony. The couple may keep the candle (some re-light the candle each year on
their anniversary).
The Blessing of the Rings;
The wedding ring is the visible sign of an inward bond, which unites two loyal hearts
in endless love. It is a seal of the vows made to one another. It symbolizes living together in unity, love and happiness
for the rest of their lives.
Breaking of the Glass
The breaking of the glass at the end of a wedding ceremony usually is reserved
for Jewish ceremonies. However, it is a beautiful ending to any wedding. ""
Breaking the glass serves to remind us of two very important aspects of a marriage. The bride and groom - and
everyone - should consider these marriage vows as an IRREVOCABLE ACT - just as permanent and final as the breaking of this
glass is unchangeable. But the breaking of the glass also is a warning of the FRAILTY of a marriage. That sometimes a single
thoughtless act, breech of trust, or infidelity can damage a marriage in ways that are very difficult to undo - just as it
would be so difficult to undo the breaking of this glass. Knowing that this marriage is permanent, the bride and groom should
strive to show each other the love and respect befitting their spouse and love of their life."
Including Children
Many couples are remarrying and want to include their children in the ceremony. There
are numerous ways this may be done. Flower Ceremony
This is a family/friends ceremony. Each designated person comes up and places a different
flower in a vase to create a garden of love.
Hands Ceremony
A recent favorite of many couples. A three to five minute ceremony in which the officiant
uses the phrasing, "These are the hands that...." in order to create a preliminary set of vows.
Honoring the Mothers
A brief reading is done and then the bride and/or groom present their mother(s) with
a small gift (flowers usually). Silent Blessing and Moment of Remembrance
Both are small blessings/readings honoring the deceased. They may include specific names
or a general statement.
Ribbon Ceremony/Handfasting
The ancient Celts tied the hands of the bride and groom. The officiant loosely binds
the hands together. They remain that way for the rest of the ceremony
Rose Ceremony
A symbolic ceremony using roses, the symbol of love. The couples who have chosen this
have described it as an extremely beautiful and moving ceremony.
Support from Families Service
Parents become part of the introduction to the vows. The officiant asks who brings this
couple to be wed.
Support from all the Guests Attending
Rather than ask who has just cause why this couple should not be married, why not ask
who supports this marriage? The entire gathering of witnesses shout "I do!" which includes everyone present.
Wine or Water Ceremony
The couple share a cup of wine or water while the officiant says a blessing and a reading.
Blessing to the Four Directions
A long time ago, people believed the human soul shared characteristics with all things
celestial. This prayer service designates the four points on a compass with elements representing human virtues.
Jumping The Broom
There are many different versions of this ritual which involves the couple jumping over
the broom. Essentially, the jumping of the broom is a symbol of sweeping away of the old and welcoming the new, or a symbol
of a new beginning.
Anything You Want!
Do you have your own wedding ideas? We will incorporate anything you want into the ceremony
so that it is the most magical event of your life.